Questions I’m Often Asked About Choosing Toys

Over the years, customers have asked me all sorts of thoughtful questions when choosing toys for children. Very often, they are not just looking for a product. They are looking for reassurance, ideas, and a little guidance from someone who understands the range.

I always think the child comes first. No two children are the same, and no single toy suits everybody. But sometimes it helps to start with the kinds of questions people ask me most often.

What toys might suit an autistic child?

This is one of those questions where I always think the child comes first, not just the label. No two children are the same, and what one child loves, another may ignore completely. But many parents are looking for toys that support calm, focus, connection, repetition, or gentle sensory engagement.

I often think about toys and puppets that feel inviting rather than overwhelming. Simple open-ended toys, puppets, creative play items, and toys that allow a child to engage at their own pace can be lovely choices. I also think it helps when a toy leaves room for shared attention and interaction, without putting pressure on the child.

For me, it is less about finding a “special” toy and more about finding the right toy for that particular child.

What if a child is non-verbal?

When a child is non-verbal, I think many adults are really asking how they can still connect, engage, and share moments of play. And the good news is that toys do not need words to be meaningful.

I often think of toys and puppets that support interaction through expression, movement, shared attention, and enjoyment rather than spoken language. A puppet, for example, can sometimes become a gentle bridge for connection. Simple toys that invite pointing, choosing, showing, repeating, or taking turns can also work beautifully.

I would always come back to this idea: communication is bigger than speech, and play can be a very natural way of creating connection.

What makes a good gift for a child who already has lots of toys?

This is such a common question, especially from grandparents, aunts, uncles, and family friends. When a child already has plenty of toys, I think the answer is usually not more of the same.

I would look for something a little different. Something with charm, quality, and real play value. A lovely puppet, a creative activity, an imaginative play toy, or something open-ended can feel much more special than another toy that just adds to the pile.

In those situations, I think people are often looking for a gift that feels memorable, thoughtful, and just that little bit unusual. That is often where the nicest choices are.

What do grandparents often ask me for?

Grandparents often want something that feels special. They are usually not just looking for the quickest or cheapest option. They want something with a bit of meaning to it, something they feel good about giving.

Very often they ask me for a gift that is good quality, suitable for the child’s age, and a little different from what you would find everywhere else. They also often want reassurance. They want to know they are choosing well, and that the gift will be enjoyed rather than put aside after five minutes.

I always think grandparents are often buying with great love and care, and I try to help them find something that reflects that.

What toys suit children who love art and creativity?

For children who love art and creativity, I would always lean towards toys and activities that leave room for imagination rather than controlling every step. I think children like that often enjoy making, designing, decorating, storytelling, and putting their own stamp on things.

Creative kits, drawing and craft sets, open-ended art activities, and toys that invite invention or pretend play can all be lovely. I also think it is nice to choose something that gives the child a sense of freedom, so they can explore ideas rather than simply follow instructions.

For me, creative children often respond best to toys that give them space to express themselves.

A Little Help Can Make Choosing Easier

Sometimes people know exactly what they want. Other times, they just know the kind of child they are buying for and want a little guidance.

That is perfectly normal, and it is one of the parts of my work I really value. I want Mimitoys to feel like a place where people can find quality toys, thoughtful gifts, and a bit of honest help when they need it.

For me, choosing a toy is never just about filling a basket. It is about finding something that brings joy, interest, comfort, imagination, or connection to a child’s life.

If you are ever unsure, you are always welcome to get in touch. by phone at 046 95589 77 or email mimi@mimitoys.ie

Myriam Doyle